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Why I don’t show every shot

“Blink” just doesn’t look good on anyone. Not even when they’re as cute as my goddaughter! (Hopefully she’ll forgive me for this someday.)

This is why I only show the best shots of the bunch – so that you always look your very best!

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A-MMarch 8, 2010 - 11:58 am

Awww…this just makes me want to hug her :o ) Totally agree….who wants to see themselves like THAT? I think part of what seperates a pro photog from amateur snapshots at home is the ability to screen through a whole session, assess all of the shots, and select those that best exemplify both the photogs skills and the beauty and personality of the subject(s).


You Are What You … Wear?

You are what you wear.

A little cliché?  Perhaps.  But when it comes to portrait photography, clothing plays a huge role in the success of the finished product.

Before we get going – let’s be clear what your clothing does NOT need to be:

  1. Brand New
    I’m down with your favorite ripped jeans, retro band T’s, and worn converse shoes – as long as you know how to rock them in your own fabulous style.
  2. Fancy-Schmancy and Uber-Expensive
    Unless it’s your thing (If it’s really your thing, then by all means baby, bring on the bling).   If you’re not normally a dress-up kind of person, don’t feel like you have to be one for your session.
  3. Matching
    No need to focus on matching everything from the color of your fuchsia headbands to the stripes in your socks.  In fact, I beg of you, please, please don’t.  If your heart is set on everyone in white button downs and khaki pants, I’m probably not your girl.
  4. Stressful
    No need to worry about each and every item, or fret about the suitability of each accessory.  This is supposed to be fun.   If you’re unsure – call me, and together, we’ll make sure you look fabulous.  I promise.

I want you to be happy, thrilled, over the moon about your images, and I know that this is much more likely if we take the time and work together to help you choose clothing that fits these few simple rules:

Feels Good.
During your shoot you could be sitting in a pile on the grass having a tickle battle, rolling down a hill with your fiancé, throwing your kiddos in the air or climbing a tree. Wear clothing that lets you do all that (and more) comfortably.

As for the kids? Well, uncomfortable kids have a tendency to look, uncomfortable, and are often cranky to boot.  Happy kids make for happy pictures.

Bottom Line: Don’t choose outfits that make any of you feel constrained, stiff, itchy, scratchy, like you’re dressed up for Halloween, or that leave you with a nagging worry that a button might pop if you bend the wrong way.  Trust me.

Looks Good.
This can be tricky, looking good is totally subjective – right? If you’re not a Carrie Bradshaw fashionista in real life, you might want to pull in some extra help from a straight-talking friend or your trusty photographer (that would be me) who knows about such things and has plans in place to help.

Sometimes last year’s of-the-moment dress has already become hopelessly untrendy. Sometimes the current fashions just don’t look or feel like you. Sometimes outfits that look good in the mirror might not be ideally suited for photography.

Bottom Line: If you don’t feel fabulous-fierce-take-on-the-world gorgeous in your outfit, you’re not going to love, love, love the end result – and I’m all about you love, love, loving the end result.

Makes Sense.
Here’s where we pull it all together. It’s not just enough that everyone look good and feel good – you’ve gotta look and feel good together AND the outfits should fit with your location and the desired mood for your portraits.

Gulp.  That seems like a lot, doesn’t it? (Quick – revisit #4 in the top list, and remember, don’t stress!).

Before you even begin figuring out your wardrobe, we’ll have a talk to narrow down what you really want for your pictures, choose the perfect location and make sure you have an understanding about how that all comes together in the finished photograph.   I’m with you every step of the way.

Bottom Line: It’s easier than it seems. Think twice about having Emma in a lace prom dress if you can’t get Tommy out of his spider man cape and favorite Star Wars pajama top. If we’re going to be running around in a park, you’ll likely not decide to wear your starched Sunday best. Hate the way stripes and plaids look together but Dad has his favorite stripped polo ready to go? Best steer mom away from her beloved family tartan. Easy-Peasy. (Unless Mom is really attached to that tartan, but we’ll cross that bridge when we come to it.)


If you’re still not certain, and you can’t decide between the yellow wrap dress with your red heels or your dark skinny jeans and purple  belted shirt – I’ve got good news.  You don’t have to decide.   Bring lots of options.  Heck – throw your whole wardrobe into the back of the car.  When we get to the session we’ll wing it all with fabulous results!  Trust me.

Thanks Jeanette!

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{Sneak Peek for Nicole} – Surf City Family Photographer

I met up with Nicole and her beautiful family this afternoon to get some quick photos for their Christmas cards.  I’m having a very difficult time narrowing down the proofs and just had to share these.  Isn’t their daughter just the sweetest?!



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Julie BuckmanDecember 22, 2009 - 12:46 am

I love beach photos! These are so great. That is one super cute baby too.

ChristiJanuary 7, 2010 - 3:14 pm

Gorgeous baby, beautiful family – awesome work, as always.


{49 Years – Sneak Peek} – Topsail Beach Photographer

Heather contacted me a few weeks ago about doing a beach session for eleven people in her family to celebrate her parents’ 49th wedding anniversary. At first I was a bit overwhelmed by the logistics of the task, but it turned out to be a blast! Heather’s family was wonderful to work with and you could definitely feel the love between all of them.

I have a bunch of images to process from this fabulous session, but I couldn’t resist sharing these!



I am in love with this next image. I absolutely love the joy between them! This is what it’s all about.


Sorry Heather, I told you I’d post it! I couldn’t resist, he was too funny!

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cindyNovember 5, 2009 - 12:33 pm

these are so sweet! you did such an awesome job!!

Julie BuckmanDecember 22, 2009 - 12:48 am

I love his foot pop. This looks like such a loving, happy and fun family. I adore the one of the older couple. You can just see the love there.